
A Breath Of Fresh Air
With Nick Cholmsky
What Kind Of Masculinity Do You Want To Embody?
A Breath of Fresh Air is a space for boys and boy-expansive youth to pause, take a breath, and reconnect with themselves. In today’s digital age, they are bombarded with messages about how to think, feel, and act in order to be a “real man.” These pressures often lay the groundwork for prejudice, sexual violence, shame, loneliness, and insecurity. It’s time for an honest, informed conversation about the ideas that shape masculinity—and how those ideas affect others and ourselves.
Through this talk, boys feel seen and understood. They are reminded that they’re human—emotion-having, connection-seeking, good-faith humans simply trying to figure out who they are, like everyone else. From here, they are empowered to explore mental health, friendships, romantic relationships, and body image in healthy ways.
This talk shows that being a “real man” means being strong enough to ask for help, courageous enough to define masculinity for oneself, and honourable enough to treat others with compassion and respect.
Details:
We focus on social construction of masculinity: we invite boys and gender non-conforming students to attend
Middle school through Collegiate, multiple versions to suit age groups
Up to 500 students
Designed to fit into period-long sessions: 60 minute and 45 minute options available
“We received a lot of positive feedback from both staff and students, who appreciated the valuable discussion and Nick’s impressive presentation and manner.”
— Michel Gelmon, Senior School Socio-Emotional Counsellor at Saint John’s School in Vancouver, BC
Where Have We Been?
Winter 2025 Tour
- February 6, McGill University, Montreal, Quebec
- February 15, Ottawa Phoenix Basketball Program, Ottawa, Ontario
- February 20, Vanier College Montreal, Quebec
- February 23, Open Middle School Zoom, Ontario
- March 3, Brentwood College School, Vancouver Island, BC
- March 5, Saint John's School, Upper School, Vancouver, BC
- March 5, Saint John's School, Lower School, Vancouver, BC
Spring 2025 Tour
- St Mary's High School, Kitchener, Ontario
- St Dominic High School, Bracebridge, Ontario
- St Peter's Middle School, Parry Sound, Ontario